After frustration trying to install jabberd under Cygwin, I try it to install under debian.
tar -zxvf jabberd-2.0s9.tar.gz
./configure –enable-mysql –enable-ssl –enable-idn
darn my Libidn is less than 0.3.0, well go back to start I guess.
well fingers crossed making Libidn now…
cool, all seems well, configuring jabberd again. Darn now openSSL is not there *sigh*, back to square 1 again, now downloading SSL 0.9.8.

Done installing SSL now, configuring jabberd again, fingers crossed.